wonder why.....................
Why? Why? Why? Why do we keep hurting the same person whom we love so much????????This is one habbit that i have noticed with most of us,
we take those people for granted who are closest to us.
Why do we keep taking things for granted the moment we get close to that person?
Why cant we learn to cherish and value each of our near ones's emotions all the time?
that would be so much better. it would not only ease all the stress, but also make the world a happier place to be in.......
we all know and realise the importance of our dera ones in our lives, but at some point in time we all tend to take that same person for granted and override or ignore their feelings.
WHY ?
this is one question to which i have no answer........... its one question which has always bothered me.... i still seek to understand the reason behind this attitude which is there in most humans that i have met till date................. ie,
we tend to take the same person for granted many a times who means the world to us......... and in the proces hurt that person..............
i think we need to measure our actions and weigh our words very cautiously in order to prevent this .........
but is it possible always?? i wonder.............
posted by Accounts_R @ 12:49 AM
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nicely written and i agree with what you have written...
but there's another twist to this whole thing... the closer that you get to a person, you cannot take always for granted...because the person does the most unexpected...by breaking your trust.. playing with your emotions..
how does one deal in such situations? do you confront this person and bring about a kind of messy situation or do u watch things happen...
just wait and watch...
hi destiny,
thanks for putting in your comments.. when faced with any such situation, i would rather confront the person (not at war footing, but in a more understanding tone) and try to understand why such a situation arose in the first place, than sit an watch...... i am too impatient to wait and watch for things to unfold... if i trust someone and love him/her i expect the same in return with full faith and commitment. i dont compromise on that sector
Well my idea of dealing with such situations is a bit different :)
We are all humans and there could be slippages (humans are bound to make errors, else they would be called Gods) if the breach of trust is a oneof instance it would make sense to ignore (and not confront) but also analyze why such a situation arose in the first place.
But yes if the trust is not being broken again and again then its time for some face to face talk.
yes!! you have a point here, we are afterall humans and bound to make mistakes.. but mistakes can be pardoned once , not repeatedly.. thats my way of looking at any mistake.
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